I thought in honor of Mother's Day I would record a real life day for this mother. This was last Monday. A typical Monday. A real mother's day. I think I'd like to remember what just a regular day at home is like. We aren't always at the zoo, at Disneyland or at a party, you know. So today went like this (other days of course also include dance class, preschool, homework and play dates):
I stayed up until midnight last night finishing a blog post so that I can keep up to date on our blog journal. I woke up at 2 am to feed Kate. She woke up again at 5 am and wasn't going back to sleep so I took her downstairs to "hang out" for awhile. We went back to bed at 6:20 am, but had to be up for the day at 7:20 am.
I went into Brielle's room to wake her up to get ready for school. Usually all the kids are already up and are downstairs watching "Curious George" until I come down, so this was different to have everyone still asleep. She did not want to wake up, but with some coaxing from me and some whining from her we made it down the stairs for breakfast. There was more whining when I told her the Grape Nuts were all gone. She has Grape Nuts every morning and did not want something different. Ava showed up downstairs smiling and already dressed for the day. Wow. I got both of the girls a peice of wheat toast, half a banana and a cup of milk for breakfast. They ate, Brie got dressed, we did their hair, got shoes and bag and we were ready. I loaded all the kids in the van. Kate was crying. We drove down to the Winns to pick them up for school. We dropped all the girls off at elementary school and then me, Ava, Zachary and Kate headed back home.
At home I nursed Kate then cleaned up the kitchen while I ate some cereal for breakfast. I got Zachary his breakfast and his milk. I loaded the washing machine with the first of probably six loads of laundry. I changed a very full and very poopy diaper of Zachary's. So gross. Kate spit up all over my shoulder and then I got her to sleep and laid her down in her bed. I was working against the clock then, trying to get as much done before Kate woke up and Brie got home. I got out the vaccuum and picked up toys while I vaccuummed the whole house. I went to change the laundry from the washer to the dryer and then went upstairs to take a shower. Kate was still asleep. Phew. I get a shower.
Brielle came home and I talked to her about her day at school. She told me about a field trip coming up and a movie they are making. Very exciting. I made everyone a lunch of peanut butter and jelly sandwhiches, sliced kiwi and a cheese stick. They ate while I fed Kate again. They all then headed outside to ride scooters around while I ate my own lunch and Kate kicked around on the couch next to me. While I ate I made a list of what meals I would do for dinner this week and what I need at the grocery store for them. I changed the laundry again.
It was time for Zachary's nap. He loves taking a nap. I called everyone in and put Zach in his bed. He snuggled right into his new spider man sleeping bag from Grandma Sue and was very happy. The girls went downstairs to watch Nick Jr. with a snack for nap time. Perfect. Kate was asleep, Zach was asleep and now I got to take a nap too. I went upstairs to find Kate wide awake and kicking around. Not asleep. Sooooo, we came back downstairs for me to hold her while I looked at online classifieds for a piano.
Kate was drowzy again so this was my chance to put her down to sleep and go to sleep myself for as long as I might get until someone needed me. I don't know how long it was, maybe 30 minutes, but it was great. It was time to feed Kate again. She then sat in my lap smiling up at me while I read some write ups about being an LDS single woman from some friends in Boston. Very interesting. These really got me thinking. I also played with Kate's feet while I read and . . . . . she laughed for the very first time. Really. It was so exciting. Such a wonderful sound.
I got up to have my afternoon Diet Pepsi and counted out 6 Triscut crackers (because I'm doing Weight Watchers again) while I put away all the dishes, started the dish washer and once again made my way to the dryer to unload it and reload the washing machine. The girls turned off their show to start their jobs for the day - Ava cleaned the upstairs bathroom and Brie cleaned the playroom. We also woke a sleepy Zachy up from his nap.
I talked to Jessica for a while on the phone while folding laundry. The girls were at the kitchen table drawing pictures for flyers for their upcoming parade that they will be performing up and down the street. Yes, their very own parade that they are planning. I then started making dinner, had three pots going on the stove while holding and bouncing a crying baby Kate. Scott came home just in time to hold her while I put dinner on the table. We ate and then had all kids put on pajamas and then head into the family room to sit down for Family Home Evening. They wiggled, they made faces, they talked, they fought, they cried, they kind of listened through a lesson on the scriptures and then reading the New Testament Stories book. We sang our closing song, said a family prayer and then started with Ava off to bed while Scott went to Costco. I put Ava to bed as I rocked Kate to sleep in my arms. I went to change the laundry again and clean up the kitchen from dinner. While I was cleaning up Zachary and Brielle were playing "house". Zach is the Dad (in Scott's shoes) "going to work" and Brie has a baby that she rocked to sleep. The room is a mess from their "house".
After the kitchen was cleaned up, I sat down with Brielle (rocking Kate again, who woke up) to read. I read a chapter in her book to her and she had to read a chapter in a simpler book to me. Zachary read "Itsy Bitsy Spider" to himself. I put Brie to bed and "Diego" on for Zachary. Scott came home. I put Kate down in bed for the night and left him Zachary to put to bed. I left to Walmart for grocery shopping at 9:30pm. I thought, "I've turned into my mother." I hate going shopping at night, but it is now necessary. I got home with $200 worth of groceries at about 11pm. It is finally now all put away. Scott had been folding laundry while I was gone and there are piles of clean clothes covering the floor. Kate will wake up soon to eat and then . . . . . . I can go to bed.
I'm so very grateful for every bit of this life as a mother I've been blessed with.